What will they say?

When we pass away what will our family say about us? I get that it’s the natural order of life, but each time one of my patients passes away I gain more insight. I’ll confess there will be more post like this, it’s the nature of working in healthcare.

My most recent patient that passed away, was such a kind soul with a beautiful family. No, that’s not something I can say about each patient.

What will my family and friends say about me when I die? That question comes up for me when patients pass away. It’s my own self-reflection and check in point. Will people honestly say I was kind and giving? Am I living my passions? What regrets do I have? What do I want to change in my life before it’s too late?

I encourage you to ask yourself these questions.